英語(yǔ)文章閱讀及譯文：其實(shí)他沒(méi)那么喜歡你
女孩兒永遠(yuǎn)忘不掉她喜歡的第一個(gè)男孩兒。就算那一幕并不是那么完美。但總會(huì)有個(gè)人告訴你這句至理名言：“親愛(ài)的，你知道那個(gè)男孩為什么那么做，為什么這么說(shuō)你嗎？因?yàn)樗矚g你。”
就是這句，我們一切煩惱的開(kāi)端。你知道這意味著什么？這是多么鼓舞人心啊…不，蠱惑人心…一廂情愿的以為如果男孩對(duì)你使壞的話，就意味著他喜歡上你了。為什么我們老這么和對(duì)方說(shuō)？是因?yàn)橐徽Z(yǔ)道破真相對(duì)我們來(lái)說(shuō)太慘無(wú)人道，而真相卻如此顯而易見(jiàn)——其實(shí)他沒(méi)那么喜歡你。我們看過(guò)的每一部電影，聽(tīng)過(guò)的每一個(gè)故事，都叫到我們?nèi)サ却鎼?ài)。那經(jīng)典三段式、意想不到的告白、相信自己是那個(gè)例外。但有時(shí)我們太過(guò)于專(zhuān)注最后的好結(jié)果，以致忽略了身邊的'那些信號(hào)，忘了怎樣去分辨那些真正想要和我們?cè)谝黄鸬娜撕瓦t早會(huì)離開(kāi)我們的人。但或許有的完美結(jié)局里并沒(méi)有男主人公�；蛟S你就能靠你自己，整理碎片，重新開(kāi)始，輕松淡定只為更美好的未來(lái)�？赡苣莻�(gè)完美的結(jié)局就是，向前走。
又或許完美結(jié)局是這樣的：在經(jīng)歷了無(wú)數(shù)次的拒絕，傷心，無(wú)數(shù)次的自作多情，和數(shù)不清的痛苦和尷尬之后，你依舊（對(duì)真愛(ài)）滿懷希冀.
A girl will never forget the first boy she likes, even if things don't quite work out. But usually someone is there to offer words of wisdom: “Honey, do you know why that little boy did those things and said those things? Because he likes you.”
And there it is, that's the beginning of our problem. Do you know what this means? We're all encouraged…No! programmed… To believe that if a guy acts like a total jerk, that means he likes you. Why do we say this stuff to each other? Is it possible that it's because we're too scared and it's too hard to say the one obvious truth that's staring everyone in the face?——He's just not that into youEvery movie we see, every story we're told, implores us to wait for it. The third act twist. The unexpected declaration of love. The exception to the rule. But sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending, we don't learn how to read the signs, how to tell the ones who want us from the ones who don't, the ones who will stay from the ones who will leave. Maybe this happy ending doesn't include a wonderful guy. Maybe it's you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is just moving on.
Or maybe the happy ending is this: knowing that through all the unreturned phone calls, and broken hearts, through all the blunders and misread signals, through all of the pain and embarrassment, you never, ever gave up hope.
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